Lately I’ve been having a hard time realizing that people may see my marriage as a reason not to get married. I never pretend that something is perfect when it’s not, but I don’t want to be a walking poster for anti-marriage either. If you skim my socials, you might think my life is … More We’re Not Couple Goals and That’s Okay! (Marriage is Not for the Weak)
Today I was thinking a lot about romance movies and shows based on love and relationships. I’ve noticed that a lot of people would say that they hate romance stories because they’re so unrealistic. They feel like it showcases a false sense of what relationships/marriages are really like (especially years in). I will say … More Does Romance Movies have a negative effect on our Love Life? (Unrealistic Expectations)
Today I was feeling a little curious about enneagram types and their best relationship matches. This past December I made two posts about finding out what my enneagram number was and how I felt about it. It was very accurate. I would say about 90% accurate. There were things that I didn’t like, and … More Love & Enneagrams (Are Some Enneagram Types Doomed to Fail in Relationships?)
Happy New Year Everyone! I hope your new year is off to a great start. I remember every New Year’s Eve I would write a brand-new New Year resolution, until I noticed that from year to year my list never really changed. Once I stopped, I felt like that’s when I finally started checking off … More Chasing Happiness in 2022 (Letting Go of Tunnel Vision) Pt 1
If you lived in a world of financial freedom with no other life stressors (like physical/mental health issues or having to do daily tasks that you hate), How would you spend your day? What would you do and where would you go? Whose face do you want to see? What would you be doing? … More How would your life look, If you didn’t have to worry about limitations? (Blogmas #3)
It’s New Year’s Eve and we are hours away from putting this rollercoaster of a year behind us. This year was definitely the year of vision and clarity. Most of us got a reality check and some of us became better human beings because of it. It was like the year of exposure. Countless people’s … More What I Learned from this Crazy Year (2020)
Mean Girls is a staple movie for my generation. It was the kind of chick flick that most people watched and loved. One of the scenes towards the end there was a girl at the assembly who was tearing up and she said “I just wish we could all get along like we used … More I AM Her, She is ME. (I Just Have A Lot of Feelings)
I’m going to end the “ideal” series with my ideal proposal. I hear about this topic a lot, and I also hear guys always ask for ideas. They don’t know if it should be creative, grand, or intimate. There’s really no wrong or right answer, because everyone is different. You have to really know your … More My Ideal Proposal
Continuing on with the “ideal” series, I thought it would be fitting to write a post of my ideal first date. If I had to think of a date that’s fun, special and leaves a lasting impression this would be my idea of that. I’m going to share my thoughts about two different dates, … More My Ideal First Date
Time and time again I ask myself why is it so hard to break old patterns when it comes to matters of the heart. Over the years I’ve watched and witness women dating a certain type of guy. You know the guy. The guy that’s a liar, a smooth talker, a heartbreaker. … More Self-Worth & Dating (For Women)
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