Tag: journal blog

Divorce Diaries (Part 13: And Just Like That… I found a Reason to feel Hopeful.)

June 12, 2025

          Throughout this journey of slowly separating, I’ve felt so many emotions. More than I could ever imagine. It hasn’t been a straight line, downward slope or a uphill slope. It has been a roller coaster of zigzags, but one feeling that has remained constant is ….fear. Fear of the unknown. It’s scary you know, … More Divorce Diaries (Part 13: And Just Like That… I found a Reason to feel Hopeful.)

Words carry weight, but that doesn’t mean I should let them weigh me down.

February 4, 2024

          It’s interesting how two people who are close to you can both see you differently. How can two people who know you so well see two completely different things? Usually, one would think that the people who are close to you would all see the same thing. In other words, if I asked my … More Words carry weight, but that doesn’t mean I should let them weigh me down.

What Would You Notice about Yourself, If You Were Able to Binge-Watch the Seasons of Your Life?

April 6, 2023

          Have you ever watched a show week by week for years and then went back and binge-watched the complete series in less than a month? If the answer is yes, you probably noticed things that you didn’t notice before. Personality traits and habits of some characters probably became more apparent. It’s completely different when … More What Would You Notice about Yourself, If You Were Able to Binge-Watch the Seasons of Your Life?

If WE LEARN From Our MISTAKES, Why Are We Always So Afraid To Make A Mistake?

March 2, 2023

          If we learn from our mistakes, then why are we so afraid to make them? I saw this question and it really made me think. It’s an interesting question. Why are we so afraid to make mistakes when they teach us so much? Is it fear of the aftermath from the mistake or is … More If WE LEARN From Our MISTAKES, Why Are We Always So Afraid To Make A Mistake?

Versions of Me (The metamorphosis of self) Level 5.0

March 31, 2022

          Today I was in deep thought about the evolution of oneself, and who we are as people. Many people start out one way and become a completely different person years later. Some change slowly while others might even plateau for decades after a certain age. When I was a kid, I was happy, free … More Versions of Me (The metamorphosis of self) Level 5.0

Judging Yesterday’s Self with Today’s Wisdom.

December 6, 2020

          Why do we judge our past selves with today’s wisdom? I heard Pastor Furtick talk about this recently and I’ve been thinking about it ever since. With age comes wisdom and growth, so why are we so hard on ourselves for our past choices/mistakes? Of course, we would do things a little different now, … More Judging Yesterday’s Self with Today’s Wisdom.

My Ideal Proposal

October 18, 2020

I’m going to end the “ideal” series with my ideal proposal. I hear about this topic a lot, and I also hear guys always ask for ideas. They don’t know if it should be creative, grand, or intimate. There’s really no wrong or right answer, because everyone is different. You have to really know your … More My Ideal Proposal

I Will Never Understand Rude People. (My rant on miserable people)

October 11, 2020

One thing I just don’t understand is rude and miserable people. You know the kind of people who has to say something rude just because they feel like it. I just don’t get it. What do people gain from being evil? The only thing you gain is bad karma. Every time I see an obnoxious … More I Will Never Understand Rude People. (My rant on miserable people)