I SEE ME! (Being Your Own Hero and Not Waiting to be Seen by Others.)

          Sometimes it feels like some of us live in a fantasy world, and yes, I am a part of the some. As we navigate through the world, lost, and confused, feeling misunderstood and forgotten, we yearn for the day where someone finally comes us to us and say …. I See You. You know … More I SEE ME! (Being Your Own Hero and Not Waiting to be Seen by Others.)

Mental Health and the Whirlwind of Negativity. (My random thoughts)

          I had a completely different topic for today, but I just decided to change it at the last minute. I want to talk about mental health and how it affects us all differently. As many of us know, the rate of depression and anxiety has risen a lot since the pandemic. For a lot … More Mental Health and the Whirlwind of Negativity. (My random thoughts)

Frenemies? … 5 Clues that your Friend might just be a Friendly Enemy? (One of the lessons that I’ve learned growing up.)

          For today’s topic I want to speak on the red flags in friendships. One thing you will probably learn when you get further into adulthood is that we trust people more than we should in our teens and early twenties. We’re more optimistic and we tend to look for the best in people. It’s … More Frenemies? … 5 Clues that your Friend might just be a Friendly Enemy? (One of the lessons that I’ve learned growing up.)

FRIEND (Do we use the term too loosely?)

Sometimes it feels like we use the term “Friend” too loosely. I stopped overly using the word “friend” in my early twenties. I realized that some people are just your peer, classmate, coworker, acquaintance or associate, and nothing more. There are a lot of people who we see every day. We laugh and joke with … More FRIEND (Do we use the term too loosely?)

I Will Never Understand Rude People. (My rant on miserable people)

One thing I just don’t understand is rude and miserable people. You know the kind of people who has to say something rude just because they feel like it. I just don’t get it. What do people gain from being evil? The only thing you gain is bad karma. Every time I see an obnoxious … More I Will Never Understand Rude People. (My rant on miserable people)

The Dreaded Question: What do you do? (Stop asking people that! …. unless you’re dating.)

          What do you do? It seems like a simple question. It seems like a harmless question, so what’s the issue? Well, let me tell you. Many of us dread this question. Many of us stay away from large crowds and catching up with old friends and family members to avoid this question. I’ve always … More The Dreaded Question: What do you do? (Stop asking people that! …. unless you’re dating.)