To Fail or To Never Try? (That’s the question. What’s the answer?)

          Which is worse? Failing or never trying? This question used to be so simple. The answer seemed so obvious. Never trying would be the worse choice of course. Now, I look at it slightly differently. I still feel that never trying is still the worst choice someone can make for the most part. However, … More To Fail or To Never Try? (That’s the question. What’s the answer?)

When You Feel that the Good Old Days are Behind You . . . (There’s still hope)

          In a previous post I’ve mentioned one of my favorite quotes from The Office. It was the last season and Andy Bernard stated, “I wish there was a way to know you’re in the good old days before you’ve actually left them.” That quote stuck with me since the very first time I heard … More When You Feel that the Good Old Days are Behind You . . . (There’s still hope)

Waiting for signs?  (Making the right decision…)

          I overheard a very interesting dialogue this week. Not only did I hear this topic of discussion once, but thrice in the last 7 days. It was about people who wait for signs before making a decision. So many of us want to be sure so bad that we drag our feet and constantly … More Waiting for signs?  (Making the right decision…)

No longer searching for the WHY! (I’m Choosing Mental Freedom!)

        This month I reached my limit of trying to find the WHY in every situation. I always felt like I needed to know why things happen the way they do. I needed to know the WHY so everything could make sense. I hate when things happen, and I don’t have an answer for it. … More No longer searching for the WHY! (I’m Choosing Mental Freedom!)

A Letter of Apology to My Younger Self. (Therapeutic Exercise) (Blogmas #4)

A few days ago, I was watching a show where they all wrote letters apologizing to themselves for their past mistakes. I’ve written motivational letters to my future self before, but I’ve never written a letter to my past self. So, I want to take this time today and write a letter apologizing to my … More A Letter of Apology to My Younger Self. (Therapeutic Exercise) (Blogmas #4)

Main Character Energy! (No longer playing the Supporting Role in My Own Life)

About a week ago I was listening to a podcast with Melissa Fredericks, and she mentioned how she’s going to start having Main Character Energy all year long. The truth is, some of us are playing supporting roles in our own life when we should be playing the leading role. We are the star in … More Main Character Energy! (No longer playing the Supporting Role in My Own Life)

Letting Fate Decide What I Do for a Week. (What I Learned from Picking Tasks from a Jar … )

Today (January 16, 2021) I came up with the idea to let fate decide what I do for a week. I wanted to do this experiment because I am so indecisive. I tend to go back and forth on a lot of things so much that I end up not doing anything (especially when it … More Letting Fate Decide What I Do for a Week. (What I Learned from Picking Tasks from a Jar … )

Being True to You and Celebrating your Uniqueness

         I’m finally reading an old book that I have had on my shelf for a very long time. I’ve been meaning to read it, but I always end up either reading something else, or just being busy doing something else. The book is Your Best Life Now: 7 steps to living at your full … More Being True to You and Celebrating your Uniqueness