The Misconception I had about Adulthood.

          When you were younger did you have a picture in your head of what you thought adulthood looked like? I remember thinking that being an adult was all about work, family and just being serious all of the time. I thought after age 25 you just automatically become reserved and serious. I don’t know … More The Misconception I had about Adulthood.

We are all in Our Own Lanes. (Our Journey is Unique)

Lately I’ve been in my head a lot. I don’t know why, but it feels like I constantly compare myself to others. In a previous post, I wrote about comparing ourselves and how we shouldn’t do it. I understand that our journey is our own. It’s unique to us. I get that and understand it, … More We are all in Our Own Lanes. (Our Journey is Unique)

Christmastime

December is coming up and I’m a little excited. It’s something about Christmas time that eases my mind, especially since I left the retail scene. During the years at my old job, I was not thrilled about this time of year. Even though Christmas is supposed to be a joyous holiday, it brought out the … More Christmastime

FRIEND (Do we use the term too loosely?)

Sometimes it feels like we use the term “Friend” too loosely. I stopped overly using the word “friend” in my early twenties. I realized that some people are just your peer, classmate, coworker, acquaintance or associate, and nothing more. There are a lot of people who we see every day. We laugh and joke with … More FRIEND (Do we use the term too loosely?)

Will I Ever be a Mom? (The Pressure of the Biological Clock after 30.)

I’m going to get a little vulnerable and open today. I’m going to touch upon a topic that’s a little touchy for me. As a teenager I use to say I wanted 10 or 12 children (yeah, I know🥴). My parents came from larger families and I just liked the thought of having a full … More Will I Ever be a Mom? (The Pressure of the Biological Clock after 30.)

My Ideal Proposal

I’m going to end the “ideal” series with my ideal proposal. I hear about this topic a lot, and I also hear guys always ask for ideas. They don’t know if it should be creative, grand, or intimate. There’s really no wrong or right answer, because everyone is different. You have to really know your … More My Ideal Proposal